Are you writing a scene where a couple are going out together for the first time? Are you looking for inspiration to write this meeting? Here are 10 words to describe a good first date.
1. Romantic
Definition
Consisting of or seeming like romance; having an inclination for romance.
Examples
โHe took her to a nice restaurant and they had aย romanticย first date together.โ
โTheir first date was so fun and soย romanticย that even before it was over, they both knew that they would go on a second.โ
How it Adds Description
One of the reasons to go on a first date is to see if there is potential for romance. If the first date you’reย describing in your storyย is a good one, then it makes sense to describe it as being romantic.
2. Fun
Definition
Providing enjoyment or amusement; full of fun.
Examples
โThe two of them went to the fair for their first date, and they had so muchย funย together that they talked on the phone every day after that.โ
โShe wanted to plan a reallyย funย first date and so decided that they would go to the arcade.โ
How it Adds Description
Ideally, a first date should be a lot of fun! When you describe a first date in your story as being fun, this shows readers how well the characters on the date get along as well as how enjoyable the activities on the date are.
3. Long
Definition
Extending a considerable distance or amount of time.
Examples
โBecause the date was such a good time, neither of them realized howย longย it lasted and it was quite late when they got home.โ
โThe date was especiallyย longย but she hardly noticed because of what a good time she was having.โ
How it Adds Description
A first date may go on for an unexpectedly long time, especially if the people on the date are having a really good time together. Describing the date as long can show that the time these characters have spent together has flown by.
4. Intimate
Definition
Of a personal or very private nature; involving or marked by feelings of romance.
Examples
โThe restaurant was nearly empty when they arrived, and they shared a very cozy andย intimateย first date.โ
โThey got along extremely well on theirย intimateย first date and once it was over they both agreed to see each other again as soon as possible.โ
How it Adds Description
If you describe the first date two characters go on in your story as intimate, this will show how romantic the date is as well as how tender the feelings between the two characters are.
5. Exciting
Definition
Producing feelings of excitement; arousing oneโs emotions.
Examples
โThe prospect of their first date was reallyย excitingย and it met every single one of their expectations.โ
โAfter such anย excitingย first date, it was hard to imagine going out with anyone else ever again.โ
How it Adds Description
Maybe this first date is something one or both characters on it have been looking forward to for a long time. If thatโs the case, then going on the date would be very exciting. There may also be things happening on the date that are quite exciting.
6. Cozy
Definition
Offering warmth or comfort; marked by the intimacy between people; providing contentment or ease.
Examples
โTheir first date was particularlyย cozyย as they spent it eating at a quiet restaurant and then going for an evening walk through the nearby park.โ
โIt was a quiet andย cozyย first date, and both of them were excited to try something new on their second.โ
How it Adds Description
This is another word that can help to emphasize how intimate this first date is. Describing it as cozy can imply that physically the date is warm or offers comfort or that there is emotional warmth between the characters on the date.
7. Relaxed
Definition
Lacking or freed from stringency or precision; being at ease.
Examples
โShe had been nervous while she was getting ready, but their first date was aย relaxedย affair and she got along with her date very well.โ
โHe was glad that instead of going all out, they had an extremelyย relaxedย and informal first date that allowed them to get to know one another.โ
How it Adds Description
If two people get along particularly well on their first date, then you can use the word relaxed to show that there is no tension or discomfort between them.
8. Casual
Definition
Done without serious commitment or intent; informal.
Examples
โShe was glad their first date was soย casualย because otherwise, she’d have felt like there was too much pressure.”
โAย casualย walk through the park was perfect for their first date since it gave them the chance to really talk about their lives.โ
How it Adds Description
People donโt usually go all-out on a first date. You can describe the date as casual to show a little informality that may help the two characters feel more comfortable with each other.
9. Memorable
Definition
Notable; worth remembering.
Examples
โThe conversations that they had and how well they got along made it aย memorableย first date.โ
โTheir first date had been many years ago, but it was soย memorableย that neither had any problem recollecting it.โ
How it Adds Description
If a first date is a good one, then the characters on it will probably have an easy time remembering it. It may be memorable because they did something unique during the date, or simply because the two of them got along so well.
10. Thoughtful
Definition
Chosen or given to with regard to the needs and desires of others.
Examples
โShe was surprised at howย thoughtfulย the plan for the first date was and couldnโt believe heโd remembered everything sheโd said earlier.โ
โFor their first date, she wanted to do somethingย thoughtfulย and so she decided to make a reservation at the restaurant he had told her was his favorite.โ
How it Adds Description
You can describe the first date in your story as being a thoughtful one if one character puts a lot of thought and effort into the planning.

